Hi AY Family,

DISCLAIMER: I know about the different stages of sexual grooming from personal experience. Sexual grooming is not only happening in the Sunday Christian churches, but it's also happening in the Seventh-day Adventist churches.

The first stage of sexual grooming is targeting the individual.

     Targeting a particular individual is not good.

     When a teen or adult does this, their attention is only focused on the individual when there are other people around.

     For example, a guy targets a particular girl constantly.

     Instead of targeting her, he should spend time with his male friends and talk about male stuff.

     Targeting a particular individual is the start of predatory behavior that should be prevented immediately.

Sincerely,

Samuel Reid